3 Lessons To Amp Your Seductive Conversation

“All great lovers are articulate, and verbal seduction is the surest road to actual seduction.”

- Marya Mannes

In order to bring your seduction skills to the next level with women, you need to pay careful attention to what is written here. When youre out at a club take a moment to look at the girl who is next to you. Notice something special that she is wearing. Lets use the example if she was wearing a pair of nice shoes.

Think to yourself, if I was wearing those shoes, what would a person say to me. A person who is interesting, can capture the mind of any person, just by talking to them. Why? The key to stimulating conversation, is the ability to see yourself from someone else’s perspective. Think about it. The next time you talk to a women, do you come across as interesting or just another boring guy.

The following three lessons will help you add some seductive flavor to your bland everyday conversation:

1. Listen and Think Before You Talk

“I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people never listen.”

” Ernest Hemmingway

Pay Attention! It may be shocking to most men, but women have things to say too! What she says can tell you a lot about who she is, if you know how to listen. There is a recipe for seduction hidden in everything a person says and does. Listen to her stories; a good social artist can learn volumes about a person by simply paying attention to what someone says.

- Words. Ideas. Feelings. Are revealed when someone is talking to you. The key is to listen to for them. Take a moment to think to yourself, “What is this person conveying to me, in this conversation?”

- Have a purpose to your response. When you truly listen to a person, you will know what is important and what is not important.

- Think about what you say next. Opinions stated incorrectly, kill a conversation. Listen and think about what you are going to say. Sometimes the best thing said, is whats unsaid.

2. Speak with Emotion

“Feelings! I don’t go by feelings! That would get you killed in war!”

” Henry Rollins

Be curious in what that person has to say. Respond genuinely with passion. A master social artist knows that communicating with right attitude unlocks a persons emotions. A persons emotions are the core to seductive conversation.

- Think for a minute. “What makes this person emotional? How can I bring out a positive and seductive emotional state?”

- Be aware of what ideas, feelings, and actions make that person emotional. Edge through each emotion. Transform negative emotions into positive ones, while bringing out more positive emotions.

3. Strategically Flatter Her

“The aim of flattery is to soothe and encourage us by assuring us of the truth of an opinion we have already formed about ourselves.”

” Dame Edith Sitwell

Everyone needs to be validated in one way or another. The key to real flattery is having the ability to deduce what part of a person needs to be validated. Telling a beautiful girl that she has “amazing eyes” wont get you anywhere, because she’s already been complimented on them thousands of times. You’re just the next guy. Instead, find something that she is insecure about in her life, compliment her on this and shell never forget you.

- Each flattering remark should ease the tension and build comfort.

- Stay away from complimenting anything that she is known for or is complimented on regularly.

- Flattery should be genuine. Do not make them sexual.

Neil Strauss and the Stylelife Coaches, contain the devices to develop into a better pick up artist and be a conversation master.