Are You Truly Compatible?

Some of us prefer the company of people who closely resemble us and some prefer the joy of introducing someone with a totally new set of skills, talents and personality to their lives. But is there a place where those differences might become a problem? These questions might help you find the answer.

1. Are you stimulated physically? It’s difficult to force to be attracted and even more difficult to maintain that over time. Ask yourself sincerely whether the “magic” is there. If it’s not – you might have a problem in the future.

2: Do You Communicate Well? Is it easy to keep a conversation going? While you may have a great connection in the sack, after a couple of years, most couples report a cooling off in their sex life. It’s then that you’ll really appreciate good conversation. What about when it comes to discussing problems? Some couples yell and scream about the smallest things – yet forgive and forget minutes later. Other people would be deeply hurt. Very different communication styles can spell problems.

3. Are your social needs similar? Couples usually engage in a common social life. Early in a relationship, it is important to look into your social needs to make sure they are somewhat similar to those of your partner. If you are very different in the types of activities and people you like to meet it can lead to a preference of experiencing your social life on your own and since relationships are all about sharing this could present problems in the future.

4: Are Your Religious or Political Views Compatible? Opposing religious and/or political views might not be problematic for two adults who respect one another. Perhaps it’s no big deal that you spend Sunday morning at church while he religiously practices his golf swing. Maybe you’re pro-choice and he’s adamantly not. You can agree to disagree, or maybe not.

5: Did Your Partner Cheat on You? Maybe your ex cheated on you and it still hurts like hell. Was it a one-time slip on their part? Did it happen during a bad time in your relationship? Have they promised it’ll never happen again? Are they sincerely sorry?

6: Do Your Share the Same Spending Habits? Simply put, money matters a lot in relationships. Some people tend to be savers; others tend to spend. Not being able to meet in the middle can add up to huge stress.

7: Do Your Share Dreams, Goals? If you’re of child-bearing age, would you like to have children? What about him? Do you dream of pulling up stakes and traveling freely, while he wants to build a home and nest there? Differences don’t mean anyone is wrong. It just means you want different things.

Shaniyah Benson writes for psychics website Asknow.com Visit Asknow.com for more articles and for all your psychic readings.