How To Know If You Are In The Right Relationship?
What are the signs that lets you know you are in a right relationship? There are things that makes us overlook things yet everyone can clearly see that something is wrong. After a breakup and a makeup, are you really sure you are in a right relationship?
There is no way for you to determine if the person you are with is right for you. The only thing you know for sure is if you are in a right relationship right now. Things will change but when you look at it right now, can you see if you are in a right relationship?
You have to ask yourself several questions to figure out if this relationship is right for you today. Start with, are you happy? You wont be skipping and picking flowers every second, of course, but in general you should feel happy to be with that person.
There may be doubts from time to time but if the person you are with is positive, then your relationship has the potential to be great. So when this happens just ignore the doubts and say to yourself you made a right decision this time.
When you are feeling sad, ask yourself why you are sad and maybe you are thinking of someone else you want to be with rather than the person you are with right now? Are you contemplating and thinking about things that could have happened and will be happening if you were not on this relationship?
Everyone thinks things like that from time to time. But if you’re preoccupied by what ifs and if only thoughts, you might not be in the right relationship after all.
When you ask yourself, be sure to ask whether you are safe when you are with them. Don’t just think about the physical abuses but also think of the safety you will feel emotionally as well.
You are probably in the wrong relationship when you are constantly asking yourself if you are under constant threat of breakups. You are also in the wrong relationship when you know that they are capable of cheating on you.
Make sure that your doubts are reasonable also. You should not spend all your time in looking after their actions. You should not just base your decisions on unproven theories. You are just wasting your time.
Make sure to differentiate if they are really capable of cheating on you or it is just your insecurities that looms around? If the person you are with cannot be trusted then what are you still waiting for? You are in the wrong relationship so there is no need to prolong the agony for both of you.
You should feel special and not have to ask for them to love you. You should be on their priority list and when you are not fairly treated ask yourself if you are still in the right relationship.
