Passing The Break Up Test Of Your Ex
If you are still clinging to the idea about getting your ex back, then you should pass the break up tests he will throw at you. Always remember that in any relationship, it should be a partnership not a single man show. Just like in instances where one does all the taking and the other does all the giving, then it is not pleasant at all.
In the event when the relationship is over, the ex who does all the taking will do some break up tests to discover if he still has an effect on you. Passing this breakup test is very important in order to create a harmonious and happy relationship.
What are these breaking up tests and how do you pass them?
Be Ready When I need you Test
This is when your ex calls up out of the blue to see if you can do something for him or her. Whether it’s coming over to fix a leaky faucet or cooking a favorite meal you prepared in the past or some other trivial matter you do not want to drop what you are doing to be there for your ex.
It is good when the situation permits you to get closer with him. But if not, then you have to teach your ex to start doing things without you. He will never learn if you are just always there for him/her.
The First Ring Test
You have been praying that your ex will call. On anything, never pick up the phone as it rings… Let the phone ring a couple of times – this will give your ex the impression that you have a life beyond him. Yes, you are not totally over with your ex but that does not mean that you won’t move on. Answering upon the phone rings test is your ex’s way of knowing is he is still important to you or not.
The Two-Minute Text Turnaround Test
Your enthusiasm to reply to his messages will help your ex determine your eagerness and need to see and please him. This is what exes usually use worldwide. Replying to his message as soon as you receive it or within a few minutes it will create a bad image for you. Let him/her wait this time. Don’t let him/her control you. You won’t look good after all. A relationship should be a hand-in-hand situation – each one for each other. But if this reality is not clear when you are not together, then it will not be good either if ever you get back together.
These breaking up tests are good for you and your ex, believe it or not. They help you realize that you are a person independent of your ex and helps your ex realize that you have a life that doesn’t revolve around them.
These are both important first steps for both of you when you want to get your ex girlfriend back. Want step by step instructions on passing these and other tests in a relationship? Watch these great videos and put them to work for you: http://www.makeyourexwantyouback.com.
