Reading Your Web Date: Tips for Ladies
In a real life most of us can tell quite easy a good man from a bad man, a right man from wrong one. It is not that easy to do when you are dating online. Sadly, any baddy with a bit of a literary talent can present himself online as a saint. The tips given below will help you to unmask the real face hidden behind sometimes very attractive personal profile.
1. Take a look at his picture. If his photo is small and out-of-focus, and it is hard to tell his face, because he wears sunglasses, or it is shown at a bad angle, or the image is of full a figure ” it is almost certain that he is trying to conceal his identity. Why he may be doing that? Most likely because he is married.
Another characteristic feature is a certain type of lines in a personal profile, revealing the intentions which can be summarized under the same meaning: “looking for a partner for a sexual relationship”. Today many men are not trying to hide their married status, they just not mention it. You can ask them in a slightly hidden form: “you are talking like a married man”.
2. You have to be wary with personal profiles, where the external appearance of “the girl of my dreams” is given in detail, but nothing is said about her interests, character features or manners. Sure, who cares about character, if she looks like Angelina Jolie or Kate Moss? The question is: what are you going to do with the author of this profile, if you will pass the strict selection criteria? Are you going to visit art galleries or riding bikes together? No and no ” all is needed here from you is sex.
3. If you see too nice pictures: man with a little kid, or cat on his lap, or something fancy looking like he is in tuxedo, in a limo, etc., be reserved. It can be only nice pictures, while the reality is somewhat different. Kids and cats can be “borrowed” for occasion and image with tux can be clipped from wedding album. Thus, the point is ” do not take all this visual presentation as granted, ask him questions about such pictures: then you may not regret it later on.
4. If man’s profile is incomplete and his answers are like “I would like talk about it later”, then he is likely has full plate of his life already or lazy (or both). In any way don’t expect any changes for better, just drop this person from your list.
5. Check his answer to a question why your past relationship didn’t work. (It can be a question in profile or you can just ask it directly). If he will blame his past girlfriend or wife, then drop him out of your list. We all know that the majority of split-ups are usually due to both sides and you, probably, do not want to be the next one to be blamed.
Here are some other signs which you can find in mens profile revealing that its author is online Lothario.
- You have found several redundant postings of the same individual on the same site.
- He shows himself on a photo hugged by a girl (you may see only her arms).
- He lists his over 80 k$ income figure without any further details (like, say, education or his profession) which would back the numbers.
- He leaves his number with some limited hours when you can call him. Many authors of such profiles are already married.
Finally, the bottom line: do not let yourself being caught by classy pictures and shiny profiles: analyze the information, explore it and ask questions.
